Building your support system

Being the first in your family to start college not only is difficult, but it can also feel like you’re alone. Your parents may not know the ins and outs of the collegiate process and it can feel like you’re on your own in terms of a support system.

But who says that a support system has to end with family?

Throughout my time in undergrad, I gained so many personal relationships who have helped me beyond words.

These same people have been rooting me on since we met.

There were plenty of times where I felt like I was too overwhelmed, tired, or just overall wanted to quit.

I took a step back and talked with people who are experiencing the same hardships as myself.

It could be financial difficulties, school work, or just personal problems coming my way. There was always somebody there to support and guide me back to a better position.

This reminds me of a discussion that was held in one of my classes previously.

My admissions counselor came into one of my classes last week and he said something that stuck with me. He said, “You’re only connected to the campus as much as you are connected to the people in it.”

I wholeheartedly agreed with what he said.

The experience I got on campus and the support that came along with it is unexplainable. It makes you genuinely appreciate the environment you’re in and I believe that is why I am as connected to my campus.

It has helped me look at the campus as a home away from home and residency for a second family.

Honestly, your family is not familiar with how to guide you through college, do not take it the wrong way. Your family is the foundation of who you are.

They know you better than anyone else, so don’t hesitate to turn to them if you need to vent. Besides, they can help you more than you can think!